The Relationship is Therapy

The article "The Relationship is Therapy: Applying Interpersonal Neurobiology in Psychotherapy" by Mandy Shewfelt explores the profound impact of the therapeutic relationship on clients' psychological healing and growth. Shewfelt emphasizes the importance of relational presence, attunement, and right-brain-to-right-brain communication in fostering affect regulation and healing. Drawing on insights from interpersonal neurobiology, the article critiques the over-reliance on technique-driven approaches in psychotherapy, advocating instead for a focus on the embodied, attuned presence that addresses clients' deeper emotional and relational needs. Through clinical examples, Shewfelt illustrates how empathic attunement and the therapeutic relationship can lead to transformative outcomes, highlighting the significance of right-brain capacities in effective therapy.

  • Understand the role of right-brain-to-right-brain communication in the therapeutic relationship and its impact on affect regulation.

  • Recognize the limitations of technique-driven psychotherapy approaches and the importance of relational presence in therapy.

  • Explore the concept of empathic attunement and its role in making implicit experiences explicit for clients.

  • Examine the influence of early relational trauma on brain development and its implications for psychotherapy.

  • Identify the key elements of interpersonal neurobiology that support therapeutic change and client healing.

  • Analyze the significance of maintaining an open, receptive, and attuned therapeutic presence to foster clients' emotional and psychological growth.