"An Overview of Working with Last Chance Couples" by Peter Fraenkel provides insights into the challenges and therapeutic strategies for couples on the brink of separation. Fraenkel emphasizes the need for a liminal space where couples can engage in "experiments in possibility," rather than committing to either staying together or separating. He highlights the importance of teaching research-supported communication and problem-solving skills, which are often neglected in traditional therapies. Fraenkel's approach includes understanding the couple's unique dynamics, addressing high-conflict patterns, and validating ambivalent feelings towards the relationship. The therapeutic process focuses on immediate, observable changes and restoring pleasurable connections while reducing conflict.

  • Understand the concept of "experiments in possibility" and its application in therapy for last chance couples.

  • Identify and teach research-supported communication and problem-solving skills to couples in distress.

  • Recognize and address the unique challenges and dynamics of high-conflict couples.

  • Validate and create space for ambivalent feelings towards continuing or ending the relationship.

  • Develop strategies for immediate, observable changes to restore hope and motivation in therapy.

  • Implement techniques to rekindle pleasurable connections while managing and reducing conflicts in relationships.

Content

    1. Last Chance Couple Therapy: Bringing Relationships Back from the Brink. by Peter Fraenkel

    2. Interview with Peter Fraenkel

    1. March 2023 full download

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